🌿How to Find your Aesthetic 🌻

Hey guys what’s up it’s Sammie so for today’s video I am going to be teaching you how to find your aesthetic **Giggles adorably** (love her lolol) Wow let me just disclaimer this video, okay? You don’t need to look like this You don’t need to have all of this, like, frill and fluff and everything to be aesthetically pleasing basically an aesthetic is Anything that is cohesive in my personal opinion, so there are so many aesthetics that are mainstream like SSS…SSS (LOL) The ones you find on Instagram, on the explore page and stuff like that the plant mom art hoe It’s not an aesthetic. art hoe is not an aesthetic by the way. *serious squishy peach* ITS A MOVEMENT So I’m gonna call ?? refer to what you guys know is the art movement move it to the art mom aesthetic okay? There are so many different aesthetics like there’s so many so just because you don’t look like this (a pretty peach) Does not mean that you don’t have an aesthetic of your own There’s this youtuber her name is Pixielocks (i loVE HER AHSEKDJA) she has such a different aesthetic than mine, but she’s so Aesthetically pleasing and everything about her is crazy and intense, and I love it (me too sis) It’s just so not my style at all and like there’s another youtuber The Gabbie show her living room in her videos and like she has an aesthetic It just isn’t a mainstream one so yeah There’s my disclaimer you are perfect the way you are you don’t need to fit into like what the internet tells you you need to (my inspirational queen) Look like oh my god to be a frickin art mom Whatever okay into the video number one: figure out what you already like. You’re not gonna have fun building this whole amazing cool color-coordinated world if you don’t like what you’re doing. You think I don’t like the color white and plants?? I do I love them. I loved them before the internet loved them I always loved to the clean like white aesthetic with like pops of green and gray I’ve always loved it But now it’s mainstream so I can buy stuff that fits my aesthetic at Target which is like so great **giggles** But you just have to like what you’re what you’re going for. Just because you love the aesthetic of whose Conan Grey (i love him ahdlasdws so cute lol) doesn’t mean you need to start wearing yellow and red and primary colors and Taking photos with the sky in the background like that this if you don’t if it’s not you, It’s not you sure you can change the way you look and stuff like that But it’s not going to be as fun and as rewarding if you actually just love The aesthetic that you’re going for if you don’t have any idea what you like yet, if you’re super, just like Plain Jane Nothing wrong with that, but just like super like my mom picked out my clothes until a year ago I finally have my own style the Instagram explore page is an amazing way to find Things that you like because once you find one post that you like Say you see a picture of a girl holding a fjallraven kanken backpack, and there’s dried flowers on it And you like that and you scroll through their page And you like more of their photos instagram’s algorithm is gonna fill your Explorer page with Other things that fit that aesthetic and you’ll have so much inspo (it really is great) I have so many screenshots on my phone of just I mainly follow house decor and outfit UM Blogs blogs is that what they’re called pages UM (XD XD) Because that’s the main thing I love I love interior design. It’s one of my favorite things to do It’s what I spend all my money on and I also really love fashion I like the way that I’m able to express how I’m feeling inside through what I’m putting on my body and my Surroundings, so I follow a lot of pages like that And I just screenshot anything that piques my interest and then I go on like Amazon or something I find something that is maybe similar or maybe fits my Aesthetic more that is like that or I go Into my closet and I try to recreate the outfit that I saw in this picture because it just speaks to me for some reason and you would get to that point where you can just scroll through Instagram and just Always see things that are just they just make you feel warm and happy inside basically Third of all it’s a little piece of advice. You don’t have to be aesthetically pleasing in every aspect of your life Do you think all these aesthetic youtubers and instagramers that you see do you think their aesthetic all the time? (yas jk) Do you think everything in their house is perfect? Do you think that their toothbrush is freaking the same aesthetic as their house?? NO They’re using a freaking crest ass tooth brush. That’s bright pink it has like rubber bristles like that’s not aesthetic (#exposed) Okay, not every aspect of your life life has to be Perfect there are things in my house that don’t fit my signal (idk what she said lmao) like let me see Okay, well this room is not a good example, but my bathroom is a really good example I have a bulletin board up there with some anime pins on it And I have a drake magnet sticking to my chalkboard in there, and I have Sailor Moon Makeup brushes and our whale shaped sponge from Daiso in my shower all these things are so not Aesthetically pleasing at all, but they bring me joy. I like them, so I have them around me I don’t care if they look cute. I like them (sassy sassy XD XD) It’s hot in here It’s getting too hot to film with a sweater on and I’m so sad Sweaters are my aesthetic number four: don’t try too hard some of these people that I see online they might seem like they’re trying Too hard, but if it was really that hard They wouldn’t be able to keep up with it as much as they are don’t try too hard It will be so obvious if you’re trying too hard to do something (it really is y’all get your life together). That’s just not working I’ve seen it countless times with people who don’t 100% know what they’re doing and sure, it’s okay to try to succeed at something, but I Don’t know how to make this sound the way it is in my head (i relate), but like it shouldn’t be everything your aesthetic You shouldn’t be trying so hard All the time to fit to this mold that isn’t even real that the Internet has tried to make you want to be a part of oh Oh, I was sitting on my feet and I had to get off of them because they were asleep and now oh my feet hurt (I RELATE) They’re numb My foot is so asleep omg okay If you are finding yourself going to the store and there are three options a white Flower pot a pink flower pot and a blue flower pot with rainbow stars on it and your aesthetic is to get the white flower pot the aesthetic you’re trying to have is to get the white flower pot and You’re looking you have the white flower pot in your hand and you’re like “I really want the blue flower pot with rainbow stars on it like it’s so cool” (go for it sis) Get the blue flower pot with rainbow stars on it who cares when you look back in 30 years You’re not gonna care that oh my god. I had a blue flower with with rainbow stars on it in my acidic living room You’re not gonna care You’re gonna have wanted the one to have the one that brings you joy Than the one that looks good with your Instagram feed and it took me a long time to accept that To actually get stuff that I like and not get stuff that other people like Just because I think they’ll think I’m cool for me liking it does that make sense okay? I don’t know this also brings me into Number five: don’t be afraid to change and sway away and grow as a person There are a couple youtubers that I know have had the same Instagram feed for like four years And I’m like bro like I respect you, but how do you? Like you you can’t stay that consistent as a person for your entire life And I get that their life can change without their Instagram feed changing But like this specific person that I have in mind their whole life is their Instagram feed I know for a fact It’s just so crazy to me I was kind of trying to have a similar feed a couple months back when I was living in my apartment And I had everything white Everything was white there was hardly any color I had like a couple splotches of like metals like gold and rose gold and like a little bit of greenery But there was no color in my wardrobe really in anything. It was just super monotone and when I first moved into this place that I’m living now I continued to have that aesthetic, and it was just drab it wasn’t me and My Instagram went from looking very blah sure it was a great Instagram feed It was really great, but it was only good for a little bit. It was very blah to what it is now I’ve added primary colors into my wardrobe Which is never a thing that I would have done before but there are a lot of yellows and blues And I really like it right now, and it’s definitely going into a different aesthetic than what I was into a for That’s okay, because it still is pleasing to my eye and others eyes So it’s good and lastly I kind of set this in the beginning, but aesthetics are stupid shoot you might say I’m a hypocrite because I use this word on my channel to pull in people to my videos But that’s just exactly what I’m doing (we love a transparent shistar) I know that there is a trend online right now that to be like ooh *Aesthetically pleasing *and stuff like that like I uploaded a video that was called ‘SammieSpeaks being aesthetic trash for five minutes’ I don’t take myself seriously. I just love the way, for instance the way I edit the beginning of my videos ( i like it too so pretty) I do this super, as someone would say, aesthetically pleasing montage at the beginning of all my videos and I love it it brings me so much joy to see that but I can still acknowledge on the other hand that the Fact that my aesthetic can be like a peach milk carton floating across with like a prism effect on it is so ridiculous But like it’s my aesthetic the fact that I can like point at something like be like oh, that’s my aesthetic. It’s stupid Okay, it’s stupid But I like it and we’re young and we can do whatever we want so if we really want to cover our entire room in primary colors and tape Maps of Japan on the wall like I have over there and dried flowers and hang out fake (*whispers* love) fake (*whispers* love) leaves from our ceilings We should be able to do so but just keep in mind in your heart so that it doesn’t absorb you It’s a little stupid no offense It’s kind of stupid how much everyone is obsessed with this me being one of them, but it brings me joy So what can I do?? So there we go those are my two cents on how to find your aesthetic and basically just my overall opinion on the thing Just be you be yourself. I say as I’m wearing a wig, but this brings me joy, okay I look cute, and I like it a lot **plays with cute wig** My mom laughed at me for buying this coffee cup because I was like oh my god That’s so my aesthetic, but it’s rainbow, and it says Hawaii on it, and it’s so touristy And I just love it so much and the inside is this beautiful pink color like This does not match my room, but it’s my aesthetic. I love it Yeah, this your first time seeing my video, please click the subscribe button if you actually liked this video Please remember to like it by clicking the thumbs up if you are subscribed already And you have not yet click the bell to turn on my notifications, so you have been notified when I post and You can actually enjoy my content if you didn’t know already I have merch currently on sale (link in description) on teespring and it looks like this yes It is super cute super fun super good quality. I love it I have the limited edition version of this sweater that I wear all the time It’s my favorite pajama shirt at the moment because it’s so warm and cozy But yeah, I have merch. I’ll link in the description if you want to check it out and Yeah, thanks for watching. Bye guys FUUUAH follow ya girl sammie on twitter and insta. dont be a square lmao peace out


  1. You don't need expensive things like dr martens or fjallraven kanken to be aesthetic just improvised and be you 😁

  2. This actually made me smarter like your right I should get what I love instead of saying ohhh this is my aesthetic but the other one isn’t and it looks better but like thanks for this video and I feel like I well feel better with this and get to know myself better yk

  3. Honestly I think my aesthetic is the ¨art mum¨ aesthetic, Ive always loved the warm colours, (reds, oranges yellows, peachy colours) they have always attracted me and make me feel warm. Would that make me ¨basic¨? Ive also loved turtle necks, sweaters, rolled up ripped jeans, thick hair bands, a really short hair. So yeah Also I LOVE rainbows! Im gay af !

  4. I love black, a lot of black, mintgreen and baby blue.. I almost only wear black clothes so yaa idk what my aethetic is..

  5. so happy I found this video when I was upset with myself for not maintaining a certain aesthetic even though I knew deep down it was not me at all. tried to have the “insta baddie” aesthetic because I thought that if I had that aesthetic, I’d be perfect in everyone’s eyes. your comments on choosing an aesthetic that makes you happy really changes my mindset, thank you ❤️

  6. I like so many different styles and aesthetics
    Pastel, lolita, goth, ''art hoe'', plant mom, hippie, vapor wave, "tumblr", vintage, 80's, 90's
    Sammie, Conan, Simply kenna (just the aesthetic), even Venus Angelic, Deaddsouls, Danna Alquati
    So when I shop clothes it is very hard to stick to either of those so I just get whatever I like, what I know I will wear, and that I can imagine outfits with

  7. ɪ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴍᴜsɪᴄ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴄᴀʟᴍ ᴠᴏɪᴄᴇs,ɪ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴘᴜʀᴘʟᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ʙʟᴜᴇ ᴇᴅɪᴛs, ɪ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴇᴀʀ ᴄʀᴏᴘ ᴛᴏᴘs/ ᴛᴜᴄᴋᴇᴅ sʜɪʀᴛs, ɪ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴇᴀʀ ᴠᴀɴs, ɪ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴇᴀʀ ʟɪɢʜᴛ/ᴄᴀʟᴍ ᴄᴏʟᴏʀs, ɪ ʟɪᴋᴇ ʙʟᴜᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘᴜʀᴘʟᴇ ʟɪɢʜᴛs, ɪ ᴡᴇᴀʀ ᴊᴇᴀɴs ᴏʀ sʜᴏʀᴛs ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴀᴛs ᴀʟʟ :/

    (ɪ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪғ ᴀɴʏ ᴏғ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪs ᴀɴ ᴀᴇsᴛʜᴇᴛɪᴄ ʙᴜᴜᴜᴜᴛ ɪғ ɪᴛs ɴᴏᴛ ᴛʜᴇɴ ɪᴍ ᴀ ᴅᴜᴍʙᴀss ᴀɴᴅ ɪғ ɪᴛ ɪs ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴍᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴀᴇsᴛʜᴇᴛɪᴄ ɪᴛ ɪs :/)

  8. my problem i know my style and aesthetic, but i don't know what to classify it as because it's not a main one like "art mom" "baddie" or "grunge" so it's hard for me to find things that fit my aesthetic

  9. I’m too gross to be an aesthetic.
    I’m literally sitting on the toilet right now in an oversized napoleon dynamite shirt and spongebob pants

  10. Well idk if my aesthetic should be like art hoe n plant mom stuff or red new york stuff?? I like both but they’re just not so pretty together soooo what should i do? :0

  11. I switch aesthetics really often. I think it’s because of my living situation. I get kinda stuck in my head and I overthink and focus on “having an aesthetic” so I go back and forth in extremes. I don’t even really have an aesthetic because of this. Idk lol it’s forever changing.

    LONG STORY SHORT I think I want to have a mix of aesthetics. Like a hybrid if you will lol
    (Casual) Kawaii + soft grunge + minimal white plant mom + stoner skater gorl
    Still finding my style, can you tell 😂

  12. My aesthetic is no makeup, oversized sweater, and skinny jeans.
    It’s not like any aesthetic, but I like to call it the “Comfy Yet Presentable Aesthetic”

  13. I love vintage stuff, but I don’t exactly act/look like all those other basic “vintage” girls, I love grandfather clocks and old houses, I hate all those trashy tube tops that are all blank and have one word on them like “honey”. I find booty shorts kinda gross, I have a plain backpack, no HUGE name brands, and I love old dresses or even just dresses in general, oh and I love clowns, help me…

  14. I have this vintage-yellow-flowery aesthetic (idk how to describe it) but I feel like I’m not supposed to because I only ever see brunette or black haired girls having this aesthetic (I’m blonde) so I feel like I don’t really fit in even though I love the look and feel of it…

  15. Im one of those people who gets bored easily so i force myself to clean the entire house so i could waste more money

  16. My aesthetic is artsy. So practically, Im artsy with my clothes. So its pretty much vsco, but more artsy. And my main colors are: Baby blue, bright yellow, artsy grey, and super light purple.
    My photos are always really edited and the background is usually a nice crowded area but im the focus, teh backgroumd is blurred. Food? Food isnt part of ur aesthetic but my food is usually healthy and sometimes very clean.

  17. This is the first “ how to be aesthetic video” that isn’t supposed to be quirky and funny. FINALLY😬

  18. I want a beige wall with white light's and roses like everywhere but rn I can only work with a blue and black aesthetic

  19. I feel like I have more than one aesthetic? I really like girly stuff, soft colours and dresses, but I also really like bright eye catching colours. Then there’s some days where I’m really minimalist and monochrome, where my clothes aren’t as feminine. It’s weird.

  20. My friends call me the aesthetic nerd cause apparently I’m the only one of them that has an aesthetic even tho they all have their own aesthetic and they don’t even know

  21. i like making meh own clothes like aesthetic clothes but everyone is perfect in there own way and you don’t have to be a person you don’t want to be and just dress what you love not for the likes i dress the way i do because it makes me feel at home im from michigan and it makes me feel like im in michigan and its relaxing❤️❤️❤️

  22. i am really confused about my aesthetic. like, i really like grunge aesthetic but i also wanna do vintage and i have a hard time picking between the two. so idk if i should pick one, or mix them both? any advices what to do? 🙁

  23. My aesthetic is white and yellow. Sadly me and my parents are broke AND my mom won't let me do what I want with my room, she gave a dark red and brown/gold color in my PASTEL yellow room.

  24. My aesthetic is luxurious pampered spoiled bad bitch. I love navy blue, gold, and light pink. I love flowers and marble print. I love Chanel, Zimmerman, anything that gives off an air of romance and ultra femininity 😂 I love bath bombs, pedicures, body oils, saunas, facials, good food, wine, fur coats and fur rugs, silk sheets, you get the idea 😃

  25. My aesthetic:
    Lucky bamboo plants
    Oversized sweaters
    Blue lights
    Dream catchers

  26. my aesthetic is like a mix between Kurt Cobain and syd Barrett because they're my two favorite people and I take inspiration from them both

  27. welp- I call my aesthetic "soft tired". kinda like the soft aesthetic yet remindes you of sleep and naps. Earthy and pastel colors. Comfy everything. everything.
    working on it more uwu

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